lundi 24 juin 2013

POPE JOINS HELLS ANGELS

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Pope Francis blessed thousands of bikers at an open air mass in St Peter’s Square – and then joined the Hells Angels.

The Hells Angels stood out like a sore thumb among a crowd of thousands at a mass for Evangelium Vitae day in Vatican City. As part of a three-day celebration of the 110-year anniversary Pope Francis blessed the Hells Angels and then… joined the group.

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Engines were rumbling when the Mass started.

 During the homily, Francis cautioned that ‘power and pleasure’, among other things, lead to God being ‘replaced by fleeting human idols which offer the intoxication of a flash of freedom, but in the end bring new forms of slavery and death.’

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A 25-mile Hells Angels parade from the port city of Ostia through central Rome on Saturday prompted some residents to complain about the traffic and noise. Thundering Harley engines nearly drowned out the Latin recitation of the “Our Father” prayer that accompanied Francis as he greeted the crowd before Mass. Standing in his open-top jeep, Francis drove up the main boulevard leading to St. Peter’s Square, blessing the thousands of people in what was a giant Harley parking lot.

Some estimates say a half-million Hells Angels  from around the world descended on Rome for the four-day anniversary of Harley-Davidson.

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The Vatican spokesman the Rev. Federico Lombardi noted that there were probably quite a few Catholic riders in the crowd and that regardless, anyone is welcome to a papal Mass.

“I know great people who have big bikes,” Lombardi quipped.

DALAI LAMA RETIRES – MOVES INTO PLAYBOY MANSION

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By Frank Lake on June 11, 2013

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JERSEY DEVIL SPOTTED IN OKLAHOMA

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The monster-like creature, the Jersey Devil, was spotted in Oklahoma and has been terrorizing local residents.

Some have suggested that the creature could be a gargoyle, an El Chupacabra, or a relative of the Montauk Monster.

The image above was taken in Oklahoma and first posted on May 6 on the Wild Care Oklahoma Facebook page.

This image was sent to WWN.  It shows an Okie being attacked by the Jersey Devil:

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The Oklahoma Department of Wildlife Conservation  confirmed that the animal was a Jersey Devil and they have contacted New Jersey Governor, Chris Christie, and demanded that the beast be removed from Oklahoma.

“Years ago we didn’t see much wildlife with this genetic deficiency for no hair but it is more common now.  And this is the most dangerous hairless beast on the planet,” said John Todd of the Oklahoma Department of Wildlife.

Oklahomans were told to be “on the look out” for the Jersey Devil.  And it’s best to spot him at night:

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YOWIE SPOTTED IN LONDON!

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A Yowie, a big hairy beast, has been spotted roaming the streets of London.

The latest sightings took place  just north of Camden Town in London.

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Hundreds of witnesses have seen the beast strolling around London.  One resident saw the creature jumping a barbed wire paddock fence before briefly pausing at the edge of a road..

The Yowie raised his arm to apparently shield its eyes from the bright high beam glare of the approaching car.

“I would have seen it for between 20 and 30 seconds,” the witness recalled.

“It was really moving at the time. It leapt the fence no problem.

“All I can remember was seeing this large black object with a solid build, lanky legs and long lanky arms.

“It wasn’t clothed … it wasn’t wearing clothes like a human.”

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Witnesses say the creature runs with a fast, stooped pace. It has high shoulders and almost no neck and a small head.

“It’s like its head was shrunken into its shoulders,” he said.

The Yowie hasn’t been seen in London in over five decades.  The last time Londoners saw the Yowie, the Beatles were just becoming famous.

Many in England are speculating as to why the Yowie has returned to London.  Sources in the government say that it probably has something to do with Climate Change.

“I believe that the Yowie is being driven out of the forests by Climate Change.  This is another reason why we must tackle this issue now,” said Prince Charles.

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SUPERMOON!

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By Pierce Blodyn on June 22, 2013

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MICHAEL JACKSON’S GHOST TESTIFIES IN TRIAL

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Michael Jackson’s  ghost appeared in court today and  declared his death an accident.

Jackson’s Ghost, 50, was speaking to the court through Lionel Richie’s ex-wife, Brenda.  She was “channeling” Michael’s ghosts.

Jackson’s family is blaming concert corporation, AEG – for the death of Michael. They are alleging negligence and blame the company for hiring doctor Conrad Murray — since jailed for giving Jackson a fatal sedative overdose in 2009

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Randy Phillips, CEO of AEG Live, however, claimed the legendary star had insisted from beyond the grave that his death was an accident, thus clearing Dr Conrad Murray, who has been jailed for delivering a fatal overdose of a sedative in 2009.

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Speaking to members of the jury at the Los Angeles County Superior Court , Mr Phillips is said to have claimed the supernatural encounter was delivered via his friend Brenda Richie, the ex-wife of musician Lionel Richie. 

“Brenda called me to tell me that she was in communications with Michael, either through a medium or directly. She said Michael told her it wasn’t Dr Murray’s fault – that he had accidentally killed himself.’

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 Judge Yvette Palazuelos is said to have ‘let the testimony stand’, as Mr Phillips responded to questioning about an email he sent back in August 2009.

It said: ‘I think I know what MJ died of and this would exonerate Conrad.’

A lawyer representing the Jackson family reportedly objected to the evidence, claiming it was ‘triple hearsay’, as the conversation was relayed to Branda Richie through the assistance of a medium. But the judge let the evidence stand nonetheless.

Jackson was close to both Lionel and Brenda throughout his life, and was godfather to their adopted daughter, Nicole Richie, 31.

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When the AEG lawyers continued to object, Michael Jackson’s Ghost appeared in the courtroom and, after dancing for five minutes, testified himself.

Michael’s Ghost told the judge that he never intended to die.  He said that he asked the Doctor to help him sleep and the doctor accidentally gave him a “little too much.”

Michael also told the court that he is “happy in the afterlife” and is spending most of his time with “Elvis, Marilyn and Liz.”

SELENA GOMEZ HAS BABY GIRL!

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Sources say Selena Gomez has given birth to a baby girl.  Justin Bieber is reportedly the father.

According to people outside the hospital, Selena welcomed a baby daughter, whom she named Justina.

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Selena is reportedly thrilled to have a baby girl.  Her mother, Mandy, was right there for the birth.  ”Selena was a real trooper through the whole delivery.  It was a very easy delivery.  She even sang songs to the nurses while delivering the baby.”

Some sites are reporting that Selena’s mother actually had the baby.  But WWN can confirm, after talking to sources in Culver City, that Selena is the mother, NOT her mother.

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The 20-year-old singer is currently working on her latest  masterpiece “Stars Dance.”  On Wednesday, June 12,  Ed Sheeran was pictured leaving Selena’s house with a guitar, which sparked speculation of collaboration. The “Everything Has Changed” singer wore a navy blue sweater, denim pants and black sneakers as he put his guitar case into the back of his waiting car.

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Justin Bieber is rumored to be the father of little baby, Justina.  He could not be reached because he was hiding from his neighbor, Keyshawn Johnson.

WWN wishes the baby girl, and her baby… all the best.

PICKLES CURE OBESITY

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Scientists have discovered that eating homemade pickles – cures obesity!

The best way to fight “fat bacteria” is to eat homemade pickles.  This is according to a new study out of Harvard, Cambridge and the Culinary Institute of America.

“If you eat homemade pickles, you will lose all the excess weight you carry on your frame,” said famed nutritionist, Jacob Walkmer.  ”Five to ten pickles a day after that will help you maintain your ideal weight, for the rest of you life.”

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Microbiologists discovered that we are made up of 90 per cent bacteria. Nine out of every ten cells in our bodies are not human but belong to these microbial species (most of them residents of our gut). 

The pickles fight the bacteria in the gut and enhance growth of “fat-killing bacteria.”

“You have to eat the pickles as soon as you wake up and then have two or three right before you go to bed,” said Walkmer.  ”If you do this, you will, absolutely lose weight.”

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If you change the ratio of bad bacteria to good bacteria in your stomach, you will lose weight – fast – according to the study.

The Western diet, with its refined carbohydrates, highly processed foods, and dearth of fresh vegetables, preserves foods by killing bacteria and then deprives our gut bacteria of much that is good for them to ferment and grow. 

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‘Probiotics – beneficial bacteria ingested either in fermented foods or in supplements – have been shown to calm the immune system and reduce inflammation; shorten the duration and severity of colds in children; relieve diarrhea and irritable bowel syndrome; reduce allergic responses; stimulate the immune response; possibly reduce the risk of certain cancers; and improve the health and function of the gut.

And the best probiotic every created – pickles.

So, go ferment some pickles – and lose weight!

dimanche 9 juin 2013

"My Date Told Me to Try Online Dating!"

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I spent my junior year of college abroad in England and became close with this cute guy in my program named Pete*. We never hooked up, but we had a flirty friendship. After graduation, Pete and I both moved to New York City, but we lost touch…until I got my current job at Cosmo.

Because I have to report a lot of quotes from guys for our stories, one of the first things I did on the job was put together a huge e-mail list of every guy I've ever known. Then I started bombarding their in-boxes with totally TMI questions. ("Happy Monday! What's your favorite sex position?") And Pete, to his credit, started to respond to my callouts. After he made a particularly funny confession about the time a girl peed on him in the shower, we started e-mailing back and forth about our personal lives, and he asked me out for catch-up drinks.

Pete and I met at a sports bar, and I swear, he'd gotten cuter! We had IPAs and wings, and between our flirting and reminiscing, he told me that he'd just come back from a trip to Germany and met a cool girl there. He didn't talk much more about her though, so I mentally dismissed her—especially after we started making out at the bar, then in the cab, then in his bed. We had a great time. But in the morning, Pete told me that the German girl was actually coming to New York for two weeks…and staying with him. And she was arriving later that day! Turns out, she'd had a work trip to NYC planned before they even met and decided to stay with him instead of at a hotel after they hit it off in Germany. Pete told me that he hadn't expected to hook up with me but that he really liked me. He also said he wasn't sure how he felt about her, so this was pretty much the most awkward timing ever. Agreed.

For the next two weeks, I tried not to think about the situation, and I was mildly successful (and by mildly, I mean there was one 30-second period when I wasn't obsessing). When she left, Pete texted me to ask me to go to a concert on Saturday night. I took that as a sign that the German girl hadn't worked out, because why would he ask me out otherwise? When I got to the show, Pete was already there, so I gave him a kiss on the cheek, we listened to the music, and then he asked if I wanted to go to another bar to get drinks. Yes! I couldn't help but think, Future boyfriend, here I come!

Wrong. In a nutshell, Pete and I small-talked about nothing for half an hour, at which point I couldn't take it anymore and asked, "Sooo, what's up with the German girl?" And he says, "Oh! We're going to give dating a try." Um, what? I was baffled, trying to comprehend what was happening. I thought it couldn't get worse, but then it did. Pete said: "But you're so great, Annie, and you deserve a great guy. Have you ever thought about trying OkCupid?"

Understand: I am in no way a drama queen, but that was just plain heart wrenching. There I was, thinking I was on a romantic date, when really, I was so not on a romantic date…and my "date" had just told me to try online dating! I put down my half-finished beer, told Pete I had to go, hailed a cab, and started bawling the moment I got in. Feeling sorry for me, the cab driver offered me a tissue and assured me, in broken English, "Tomorrow be better day." At least he was right.

*Name has been changed.

Annie Daly is an associate editor at Cosmo and author of the yet-to-be-written memoir Tomorrow Be Better Day.

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Update your sex life this summer

THE GETAWAY PLAN

"I firmly believe that the holiday sex is the best type. But my husband and I cannot tons of long trips, so we take those minis. We will find a B and B good market nearby or even rent a hotel room in our own city. Change the decor us relaxes, so we get that wild, fluid sex we can not otherwise have! "- Sam p.m.**, 28

PRE-SHOWER 

"Most people like to shower after sexual intercourse, but my guy and I do before." We wash with oil of eucalyptus and Peppermint - wash thecombo more steam gets our blood flowing, so at the time we reads getto, we are very excited. In addition, we smell nice and pretty soft! "- Meg o., 28

THE CHORE CHART

"My husband used to be a slacker on chores, and it me has so much that I did not have sexual relations with him annoyed." If one day, we made a graph of the chore of things that need be done by us two. Now when I come home to an empty trash can, I'm so relieved that I can help him jump! "-Eli k., 29

COVERAGE

"Once my boyfriend and I have sex with her parents. I guess I was a little too strong, because it covered my mouth with his Palm and remain there until we finished. I thought that it freak me out, but it was really hot! Now, I sometimes he ask to cover my mouth, even when there is no need to be quiet. Withholding is a great feature, and we realized that expressing emotions with only our eyes during sexual intercourse increases the intensity and allows us to feel more connected when we are strong. "- Mel g., 23

REGAL BY LEAF

"When I was in College, I dated this guy who had leaves that smelled terrible, like a combo of sweat rassi and dirty socks, that I ended up him dumping." This is a complete deal breaker - talk unsexy! Then, when I got my diploma, I decided to invest in cotton luxury, crisp, white, high thread count sheets, so I would never have to deal with connection of unsexy College-guy again. I'm married now and my husband and I bought our own fancy sheets. And I must say, our sex life is just as luxurious. Not only do the leaves motivate us to have more sex (which doesn't want to get tangled up in beautiful linens?), but also, we feel more adult, so we behave like it too. We communicate and say what feels good and what is not and what we want more of. The moral: equals leaves better sex more (and better). "- Katie y., 28

THE SELFIE

"I started touching my clit during sex with my boyfriend, and it feels amazing. I can not believe that I had never tried before! The combo of penetration and stimulation of the clitoris puts me on the edge. "And I feel in control of my own O, which is empowering for me and him light up!" - Mia B., 25

THE APPROACH FORWARD

"Now that I'm in my 30s, I realized direct thatbeing with the guys is the key to better sex." "I called my guy the other day and said, Word for Word, ' I want to come to 7 tonight and have sex with you."When I arrived, I marched in and took over. He thought it was hot becauseI was dominant, and I felt powerful, which turned me on. "- G. Abby, 32

NAKED LUNCH

"My boyfriend and I make a habit of meeting for quickies lunch break at his home. All morning, we text each other on how we can not wait to get it. When it is finally time to answer, the sex is amazing because we had anticipated this for hours!"-Britt P. 32

THE CASE OF THE BOOK

"I'm a new convert romance novel. I read Love irresistibly Julie James before I went out one night, and I ended up doing with a guy at the bar because I had sex on the brain. I also love Rachel Gibson and Susan Elizabeth Phillips. Their stories help feel me more sensual during intercourse, I visualize hot scenes! "And it should never know." - Steph G., 26

THE MOVEMENT OF THE SHOULDER

"Clitoral stimulation always makes me orgasm, but I think it's fun to finish only of the ordinary missionary too. '' I discovered an easy trick getting me there: I put my legs on his shoulders and lift my butt by a few centimetres on the mattress. Then I have my boyfriend hard extra boost. My positioning creates this arch that makes it easier for him to go very deep, making for me. This, plus the fact that it is thrusting extra hard, makes the end result really mind-blowing. "-Laura M., 27

THE WARM-UP

"I've always been on the fence of sex toys. I consider them, but then I think, "no, they are not really for me. I am very well without them. "Recently, I decided to be adventurous, so I bought my first vibrator online. My new thing: when I know that my boyfriend arrives at a specific time, I turn my vibrator speed low about 10 minutes before it arrives and it literally just let it sit inside of me and humming along for that all the time. In this way, it warms everything there for when it happens. Then, when he touches me and I'm already wet, it makes us both much more exciting for the other, and sex feels more connected accordingly. Also, I have found that I am more likely to orgasm during sex after I do my warm-up vibrator pre - sex! "- Diana k., 23

THE SEXERCISE

"I finally took the time to learn how to do a Kegel correctly, and it has made all the difference. I used to tighten the muscle that I felt in my vagina both my ass - but then, I wasn't sure if the Kegels worked, then I watched a video on YouTube of a woman who teaches Kegels. She explained that you aren't supposed to use your butt at all! You are supposed to only to tighten the PC muscles in your vagina. Now I do Kegels sense then that my guy and I are having sex and we love it. It increases the pressure for us two, so our orgasms are much stronger. "- Ali f., 23

* Names have been changed so that these girls can always look their bosses and their grannies in the eye.

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samedi 8 juin 2013

Rich Bitch Beauty

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"My Date told me to try online dating."

I spent my junior year of College abroad in England and become close with this cute guy in my program named Pete *. We never connected, but we had a loving friendship. After graduating, Pete and I both had moved to New York, but we lost contact... until I got my current job to Cosmo.

Because I have to report a large number of quotes from guys for our stories, one of the first things I did on labour has set up a huge email list of all the guys I've ever known. Then I started bombarding their inboxes to totally TMI questions. ("Happy Monday! What is your favorite sexual position?") And Pete, to his credit, started to meet my legends. After having made a particularly funny confession all the time, a girl made pee on him in the shower, e-mailing back on our personal life, we started, and he asked me for drinks catch-up.

Pete and I met in a bar, and I swear to you, he had obtained more cute! We had IPAs and wings, and between our flirt and memories, he told me that it would be just back from a trip to Germany and that he met a cool girl there. He did not talk much to his subject, so I rejected mentally it - especially after we started at the bar, and then in the cabin, then in his bed. We had a good time. But in the morning, Pete told me that the German girl was actually came to New York for two weeks... and stay with him. And she arrived later that day there! Turns, she had a work trip in New York planned even before they met and decided to stay with him instead of a hotel, after they were hit in Germany. Pete told me that he did not expect to hang with me but he really loved me. He also said that he wasn't sure how he felt on his subject, so it was pretty much the most difficult schedule ever. Agreed.

For the next two weeks, I tried to not think about the situation and I was moderately successful (and tell more, I mean there is a period of 30 seconds, when I was not obsessed). When she left, Pete sent a text message asking me to go to a concert Saturday night. I took this as a sign that the German girl had not worked, because why he asked me also? When I arrived at the show, Pete was already there, so I gave him a kiss on the cheek, we listened to music, and then he asked if I wanted to go to another bar to get drinks. Yes! I couldn't help but think, buddy of the future, here I come!

Bad. In a Word, Pete and I have small-talked about nothing for half an hour, at which point I could not take more and asked, "so, what is up with the German girl? '' And he said: 'Oh! Let's give dating to try. "Uh, what? I have been baffled, trying to understand what was happening. I thought it couldn't get worse, but then he did. Pete said: "but you are so great, Annie and you deserve a great guy. Have you ever thought to try OkCupid?"

Understand: I'm certainly not a drama queen, but that a dying heart simply. Here I was, thinking I was on a romantic rendezvous, when really, we got so not on a romantic date... and my 'date' just told me to try online dating! I have tabled my half finished beer, says Pete, I had to go, hailed a taxi and began to scream when I got in. Feeling sorry for me, the taxi driver gave me a tissue and I was assured, in broken English, "tomorrow be better day." At least he was right.

* Name has been changed.

Annie Daly is an associate editor at Cosmo and author of the yet-to-be-written memoirs tomorrow be better day.

vendredi 7 juin 2013

Good in Bed beauty

'Tis the season of mini small and bikinis barely there! Make sure that your skin is soft, palpable and beautifully glowy with this nourishing lotion night (it is loaded with moisturizing Shea butter)!

Dove regenerating night Lotion, $6, Wal - Mart.com

Yes, it's a chocolate Anus (happy Friday!)

One of the more cool things that I did at the College has been making chocolate vaginas. Seriously. I then peddled said vaginas to the guys at frat unsuspecting in the middle of the campus with fellow feminists fab we collected funds for our annual production of the Vagina Monologues. (The look on the faces of these guys when we asked them if they wanted to buy a vag to eat during their next course?) No awards.)

But while I can totes appreciate a confectionery of sex - especially on behalf of livestock moolah organ for combating domestic violence - I must say that I am a little concerned about the idea of actually eating a. Maybe I am a total weirdo but chomping on an edible vag just made my own hoo - ha wrong - they are just a realistic littletoo.

(Chocolate tits, however, are a little less scary. Type.)

However, breasts and pale chocolate vaginas compared to a line of, Yes, chocolate anus that get a lot of attention today. (Say that they have been the butt of many jokes. Bahahaha!)

Founded in Britain, edible Anus is - what else? -Edible anus apparently created after taking a mould of the starfish of the real woman. (You have to wonder what the process of application for this concert was as... or, perhaps, not.)

According to their website, they are not only delicious Belgian chocolates - they are delicious Belgian chocolates that can change the world. "The range of the anus may dissolve cultural boundaries of race, gender, class and sexual orientation," the company proclaims. Well, at least there is a good message (heh) behind them... but, seriously, if you're not a habitual, erm, tosser salad, would you really want to put one in your mouth?

We do not think so.

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Photo: Via edible Anus

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ELISA Benson is the editor of social media for @Cosmopolitan so, Yes, she tweets about sex for a living. ELISA grew up in Ohio, attended Colgate University and wrote tips love and relationship for seventeen years before graduating to Cosmo. She lives things girly (marriages and eyelash extensions and Pretty Little Liars) and frequently tweets about the all of the above: @elisabenson.
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Long necks, stretched lips and other standards of beauty from around the world

Women of the tribe Kayan in Thailand begin bearing rings of brass around their necks when they are just five years, to add more rings measure that they age to elongate their necks. A super-long neck is considered as beautiful and elegant in this region and women may carry more than 20 pounds of rings as adults.

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Meet the beauty bloggers

Cardellino Carly: I am the beauty and fashion here at Cosmopolitan.com editor. I'll try anything once (I have the harvest cut - my hair used to be super long - and the body wave to prove) and then a report. I am obsessed with hair products, like volumizers and sprays of salts, as well as mascara, Nail Polish, a good basis (right now, I'm Tom Ford Beauty Traceless Foundation SPF 15) and blush (literally, it changes the way you look in seconds) - I hope you can see why I'm in this business. I also like the collection of outfits from head to feet for friends, if they're not going on a date with their guy or a black tie wedding - so feel free to click on the link "contact" below and send me a question.

Leah Wyar: Ladies, I'm the DIY beauty guru. My specialties? Self-tanning spray and master the in-home manicure. I tried dozens of spray-tanning formulas and have mastered the art of self-Tanner (don't worry, I'll share!). In addition, I paint on the hottest nail trends every week (currently I'm obsessed with sequins and dark Polish trend). Follow me as I branch out and perfect my DIY skills (up next: waxing!).

Marta Topran: I'm obsessed with making my skin as glowy as possible. This means try each potion anti-aging there and never leave the House without some kind of blush highlighter on my cheekbones. I am also the addict resident of eyebrows and eyelashes. Right now, I'm rocking super lashes extensions long that I can not believe that I ever lived without.

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I'm too young for a stroke

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One afternoon in the spring of 2010, I was at home making lunch for my 2½-year-old triplets when I suddenly noticed black spots in my vision. They were the size of a quarter, one in each eye. I thought, Oh great, here we go, another migraine. I had gotten migraines a couple of times in the past, more I'm an optometrist, so I thought I recognized the symptoms.

But I shouldn't have diagnosed myself so dismissively. Spots associated with ocular migraines tend to be in just one eye. And when one of my migraine was coming on, I usually saw a swirling blur of zigzags and zebra stripes, so this was unusual. Still, I just went on giving my kids their lunch. It wasn't until the next symptom came, about 15 minutes later, that I knew it was something more serious... something neurological.

I was in midsentence a Thomas the Train book with my his Michael on my lap when I lost my ability to read. I could see that there were letters on the page and those letters were grouped into words, but I had no idea what they said. Reading is a skill we learn around age 5. To be 31 and have it stripped from you? I was freaking out.

I called my husband at work, and he told me to sit down and relax. But I had the medical training to know something was very wrong. I put my kids down for a nap and called my in-laws, who lived next door at the time, and they came over. They asked if I'd eaten that day, which I had, and if I'd been drinking enough water. They thought I was dehydrated. Who could blame them? I was so young and healthy.

My father-in-law said he would go with me to the doctor while my mother-in-law watched the kids. I felt as if there were some sort of impending doom looming nearby. And after walking up the stairs to grab my phone and purse, a wave of nausea and dizziness rushed over me. My head started spinning, and it wouldn't stop. I yelled, "I think I m going to throw up!"

I carefully made my way back down the stairs and lay down on the bench in my hallway. My in-laws called 911. The only thing I could think was that I must have accidentally touched and then somehow ingested a household cleaner, and that was why I felt sick.

Then about half an hour after the spots appeared in my vision, a new symptom came on. The right side of my face began to tingle, then my right arm, then my right hand. That's when I finally made the correct diagnosis: I was having a stroke.

The ambulance arrived within minutes. As they were putting me in it, I saw a couple of my elderly neighbors come out of their houses, concerned and asking if they could help. They are so much older than I am; I felt like our roles should have been reversed.

I told the paramedics about my fear that I was having a stroke, but they were doubtful. I recall their saying something like I was "so young" and I "didn't have any risk factors" because I was a nonsmoker and thin. They gave me oxygen and rushed me to the ER. I closed my eyes and hoped we would get there soon.

When I got to the hospital, I began to slur my speech, another classic sign of a stroke. I would think of a word in my mind and I would speak it, but the wrong word would come out. I was trying to tell the doctors about my vision but I couldn't say the word vision. I kept saying version. But I couldn't believe I said the wrong word, so I'd go, "Version? Version! Version! Version!" They were like, "Okay, calm down."

It was terrifying. I was all there cognitively and I was saying the right word in my mind, but my own voice was saying it wrong. It was almost like I was trapped inside my body and had no way of telling people "I m inside here and I m okay."

As I lay there in my hospital bed, getting all sorts of tests done, I wondered whether or not I'd ever read to my triplets again. I kept thinking about them back at home and how they would soon be waking up from their naps, happy to see Grandma waiting at their cribs and with no understanding of what was happening to me. I thought of when they were born early and they were preemies in the NICU. I used to pray that they would grow strong and big enough so that I could show them there was more to the world than just this hospital. I wanted to show them the bright blue sky. Now I was scared for me.

The doctors didn't give me blood thinners or aspirin before running tests because, in some types of strokes, that can make things worse. After running tests, they determined I'd had a transient ischemic attack (TIA), which is a ministroke. A tiny blood clot, smaller than the head of a pin, had formed in my leg and traveled to my brain. It had stayed there for several hours, causing all my problems-the spots in my vision, the loss of literacy, the nausea and dizziness-before, thankfully, dislodging itself. Doctors didn't even have to give me medicine.

But my doctors were still worried it would happen again. Because I was young and healthy, they had a theory about what caused my stroke: a congenital heart defect. They examined the backside of my heart using a special test called a transesophageal echocardiogram - a probe went down my throat while I was sedated-and lo and behold, there it was. The defect is called a patent foramen ovale, which is basically a hole in the wall that separates the two upper chambers of the heart. Tiny blood clots can use it as a door to go straight to the brain.

I left the hospital 24 hours after I was admitted, but I rested a lot the first few days I was home. I was told there was a heightened chance that I could have a second stroke within the first few days of having the TIA, or "warning stroke." A second stroke brings more risk of damaging residual effects.

A month and a half after my stroke, I had the heart defect repaired. Doctors used a catheter in my leg to insert an umbrella-like device into my heart to close off the hole. I healed quickly because it wasn't open-heart surgery. It's pretty amazing that they can fix your heart by going through your leg.

My health scare is always in my thoughts. But its presence is positive: It means I don't ever take my time in this world and with my family for granted. These days, I love to sit in the backyard and watch as my kids blow bubbles into the blue sky I thought about so much while I was in the hospital. I put the words thank you into each one before it drifts up and away.

Could It Happen to You?

Surprisingly, 10 to 15 percent of strokes happen in people under age 45. Also scary: 1 in 7 is misdiagnosed as a less serious medical condition, like vertigo. No matter how old you are, use FAST to remember the classic warning signs.

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Does one side of your face droop? Can you smile? Suddenly developing numbness, weakness, or paralysis on one side of your face is a major red flag.

ARMS

Is one arm weak or numb? Can you raise both arms? Stroke victims often find that one arm feels limp or sags when they try to lift them both.

SPEECH

Is your speech slurred? Can you repeat a simple sentence? You may be unable to find the right words to explain what's happening to you.

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If you have any of these symptoms, call 911 immediately. The faster you get help, the better your chances are of survival and recovery.

Wreaths: A Cool (and totally Boho) way to amplify your weekend wardrobe

It is easy to accessorize your sets of summer with a statement necklace, rings of midi or part of arm bracelets, but unexpectedly to take your outfit to a higher level is located at the top of your head.

Donning a Crown of flowers makes your looks so chic, soft and feminine. And clearly, we are not only suggests that, since celebrities such as Maria Menounous, and Kourtney Kardashian have been recently seen wear one.

In addition, they are super easy to make. Do not know how to do it? Click here for a DIY tutorial.

We suggest you to wear one with a Bohemian style dress, a floral shape-and-flare printed dress or a number of lace is to pull off the look with ease.

Who knows, before you know it could be you:

Are you in the flower crowns? And you will one this summer?

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Long necks, stretched lips and other standards of beauty from around the world

Women of the tribe Kayan in Thailand begin bearing rings of brass around their necks when they are just five years, to add more rings measure that they age to elongate their necks. A super-long neck is considered as beautiful and elegant in this region and women may carry more than 20 pounds of rings as adults.

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Wearing the Wrong Bra Size Causes IBS?!

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Earlier this week, I revealed that after nearly 15 years of wearing a bra, I finally got myself properly fitted—and found out that I have been wearing the wrong size for ages.

Turns out that I'm so not alone: According to new research, roughly 80 percent of women are sporting an insufficient over-the-shoulder boulder holder. Uh, that's a lot of us.

A report detailing the research claims that a poorly fitting bra can cause headaches, rashes, hernia, and even IBS (or, irritable bowel syndrome for those who are luckily unfamiliar with the acronym). Seriously?!

This info kinda sounded far-fetched to us, so we chatted with board-certified internist Nancy Simpkins, MD about this whole bra sitch. She put the kibosh on the IBS thing, at least for us younger ladies. (Her take is that the claim is a little exaggerated, as the muscles of the chest and abdomen protect the bowel.)

However, she says that women should definitely get fitted, as there are certainly musculoskeletal, skeletal, and postural implications for wearing the wrong bra.

"For young women, I recommend starting good habits as early as possible in order to prevent long-term effects," she says. "A poorly fitted bra can contribute to shoulder and back pain. The best way to prevent this from occurring is to invest in bras that fit well."

So, while wearing the wrong bra won't make you spontaneously do a number two, it might be worth asking a sales rep to take your measurements the next time you're out shopping to find the right size. Not only will a proper fit help your posture and stave off back pain, but it will make your boobs look even awesomer, which is always a perk. (Get it? Perk? Perkiness? Boobs?!)

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Would Alcohol Nutrition Labels Be a Total Buzz Kill?

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Are TV-Themed Clothing Lines a Thing?

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Matchbook’s Linda Kearns added, “The Revenge-inspired label [just] made sense: We know that women everywhere feel that the best revenge is a killer look."

Are you psyched to see the Revenge styles later this year? We are!

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Mixed Messages

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Not sure about you, but the very first thing I do in the morning (after hitting snooze three times) is look at my phone. And the absolute best feeling is when you type in your passcode to find that little red number on your Facebook app, notifying you to so many fun possibilities: Someone tagged you in a picture! A hot guy wants to be your friend!

So when I woke up this morning to find I had a notification, I eagerly opened up Facebook. Then I promptly had a panic attack because I saw I had a message from Becca.

Hi,

Justin filled me in and I’m not going to lie, I’m really disappointed. I liked the two of you together, and I really like you!! (Does that make me sound like a total creepazoid?) That aside, I wanted to give you a heads up that I sent you an invitation to my bridal shower before all of this went down. I totally understand if it’s too uncomfortable for you to come, but I hope you’ll consider attending, because I’d really love to have you there. I already did a big shower with family in Maryland, so this is just a smaller one some of my NYC friends are throwing—no parents, no judgments, lots of mimosas!

All the Best,
Becca

I stumbled out of bed and shoved my feet into a pair of flip-flops. I hadn’t checked my mailbox in over a week, so I had a feeling the invitation was crammed in there, along with twenty million Bloomingdales catalogues. I jogged down the stairs to the first floor and sure enough, when I waded through all the junk, I found it. It was scheduled for a Saturday at the end of June at a restaurant called Fig and Olive in Meatpacking. The invitation specified that unlimited mimosas would be included, which I have to admit, was a major selling point.

I trudged up the stairs, weighing whether or not it would be weird to go, or rude not to go. I had a few days until I had to RSVP, so I decided to marinate on it for as long as possible.

Work was nonstop—meeting after meeting after getting lunch for Megan after meeting. Finally, it was 7:30, and Kate and I decided we deserved a drink after the day we’d had.

“You should go,” Kate said, over our carafe of Sancerre. I’d just finished telling her about Becca’s FB message.

“You don’t think it would be awkward?” I asked.

Kate shrugged. “Maybe a little. But you should just look at her as a friend—not as your ex’s sister. You can never have too many friends.”

“Shocking statement coming from the girl who goes everywhere no less than five deep.”

“Safety in numbers,” Kate said. She cleared her throat and looked around. “So I wanted to talk to you about something. Something kind of private.”

“Sounds juicy.” I sat up straighter in my chair. “I’m all ears.”

“Okay.” Kate exhaled and giggled. “I’m being so stupid about this. Okay, here goes. I think Richard has like, a crush on me or something. I know I thought he was gay, but now I’m realizing that some of his actions, which I thought were just friendly, may have been, like, him flirting with me.”

Something in me shifted. The best way I can explain it is that I thought Richard and I had a special friendship bond, and it bothered me that maybe I had misinterpreted that. “Really?” I tried my best to sound neutral. “Like how so?”

“Well, he asked me out for a drink last week. And he’s just really flirty in general.”

“Oh, that’s all?” I asked, with relief.

“What do you mean, ‘Oh, that’s all?’” Kate’s face twisted into a defensive expression I’d never seen before.

“Sorry.” I took a sip of my wine. “I didn’t mean it like that. Just that, we got drinks on Friday too. And I think he just flirts with everyone.”

“Did he pay for your drink?” Kate demanded.

“Yeah, he did actually.” Kate appeared so wounded I added, “It was just a friendly drink though. He had a date with another girl right after.” I only mentioned the date as proof that our drinks were just friendly, but as soon as I said it, I wished I hadn’t. Kate looked even more crestfallen.

“Oh.” Kate’s voice was small. “I guess I just misread things then.”

“Who knows, maybe you didn’t!” I just wanted to say anything to make her feel better. I’d only ever known Kate to be all smiles. But I also didn’t want her to get the wrong idea about Richard and potentially make a fool out of herself.

Kate shrugged. “Well, maybe I did.” She perked up. “We’ll see what happens in the Hamptons.”

I quickly changed the subject, but her last comment had me worried. Richard clearly hadn’t shared his thoughts about relationships and monogamy with Kate, otherwise, she wouldn’t have any interest in hooking up with him. She’s mentioned to me several times that she really wants a boyfriend. I decided I’d hold off on telling her unless she brought him up again—no sense bursting her bubble more than I already had, or sharing information Richard had literally just shared with me. I didn’t want word getting around with my new friends that I was some big fat gossip even though I kind of am. I’ve got to hide that from them until they truly love me and are therefore able to look past my fatal flaw! Any way, Richard seems to be pretty open about his disdain for monogamy, so hopefully he’ll bring it up to Kate on his own and I can stay out of it.

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And This Is Why We Don't Lie About STDs (And Always Wear Condoms)

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New Weight-Loss Treatment Robs All Joy From Life

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There are a ton of supposed miracle weight-loss treatments and regimens out there, from juice fasts to vinegar diets (blech). But the one I read about today might be the craziest of them all.

Apparently, the hot new way to drop pounds is to sew an abrasive patch on your tongue so that IT HURTS LIKE A MOTHER F***ER WHEN YOU EAT SOLID FOOD.

Are we in the end of days here? Because it damn sure seems like it.

Developed in Venezuela, the treatment was recently adopted by a Beverly Hills plastic surgeon (shocker!), who will transform your tongue into a soft muscle of pain for the low, low price of just $2,000. Basically, the patch makes eating so painful that you can only tolerate liquids, thus making you super svelte in a jiff! (Though, you'll have to change out the patch every 30 days or so, or else it will fuse with your tongue, making your life permanently sad and full of agony.)

Um...did the makers of this forget about milkshakes? Last I checked they're liquid (and delicious). And what happens when you want to make out with someone? Will that send you into spasms of agony, too?

I don't know about you, but this whole idea makes me want to run to the kitchen and make myself a big ol' sandwich and relish every single pain-free bite. Dear, sweet tongue: I shall never wrong you like this.

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#LuckyGirl Is The New #Humblebrag

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For the sake of keeping it real, let's say that social media exists and succeeds not just to connect you to other people, but to connect you to other people's accomplishments.

You went to Greece? These Instagrams are ridiculous. You got promoted? I 'like' it. You tweeted wittily about the Turkish protests? Brava, I don't know how you pulled that off but I'll RT it.

It's one big celebration of mutual awesomeness. But there is one hashtag I will not applaud: #luckygirl.

Surely you have seen this. A friend uploads the gorgeous white tea roses her boyfriend sent to her office, and she's all, "It's not even my birthday! #luckygirl" Or someone's husband has dinner waiting for her and she puts a filter on a near-pornographic pasta dish, along with "Came home to a hot meal and a glass of vino! Ladies, THIS is how a man should treat you. #luckygirl." It only gets worse at birthdays and holidays.

This hashtag needs to die. Whereas its closest predecessor, #humblebrag, makes no secret of its intentions—I'm sharing a hand-picked moment from my life and it is badass and you will be jealous—its self-aware brazenness is part of its charm. My life is amazing and I'm owning it. It works.

But #luckygirl is weirdly distancing—annoying in its refusal to take any credit, like the girl you graduated with who explains her amazing job with a shrug: "I just got lucky." The lucky girl hashtag screams, "I didn't find an awesome boyfriend, he just fell into my lap ready to cook and send flowers. You should get one yourself!" Like you haven't been on offensively bad dates like the rest of us and aren’t delirious with glee that you found an acceptable dude. Pffft.

I totally get that when you're in love, you want to shout it from the rooftops (the modern, not-dangerous rooftop is Facebook). It actually is a freaking miracle to find a cute guy who wants to makes you mac and cheese. We as your followers would never begrudge you romantic happiness. Go on, girl.

But I'm on to you #LuckyGirls. Distance yourself from the accomplishment all you want, it is still humblebragging that won't even admit it is humblebragging. And it gets an eye roll. #overit

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ELISA Benson is the editor of social media for @Cosmopolitan so, Yes, she tweets about sex for a living. ELISA grew up in Ohio, attended Colgate University and wrote tips love and relationship for seventeen years before graduating to Cosmo. She lives things girly (marriages and eyelash extensions and Pretty Little Liars) and frequently tweets about the all of the above: @elisabenson.
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Tits naked and books: my lovely afternoon reading Topless Club

"In France, Cap d'Agde allows, as well as parts of the Spain,"a completely naked man named Sam * is informing me that we bake to 81 degrees of heat on top a lovely bed and breakfast in Chelsea of Manhattan.

Rachel *, also completely naked, pipes to the top of the rose-petal sparse paddling that Sam put in place for us, book in hand. "Here's something to discuss - what is a" top work pants '? "" "The protagonist of this book really wants one."

"Probably a handjob through the jeans right?" replied Katie, * a Brown girl, freckles with bright blue Nail Polish which is lounging topless on a chaise longue.

The first girl mark_chris1965. "It seems just wrong uncomfortable."

A conversation that could be made with clothes, of course, but my naked breasts and I are hanging out with a few other topless joint outdoors Topless Pulp Fiction Appreciation Society, a club of New York two summers and duration where members, often strangers to each other, remove and read the titles on prohibited same-sex lust and crime lasts from the 1950s (I brought the authorized biography of Monica Lewinsky).

We are on the roof pleasant hostel House, originally founded by Mel Cheren, known as "the Godfather of Disco" and an active member of the LGBT community, particularly in the form of HIV awareness. Before that Caroline Claes died of AIDS, he dictated that the hostel always remain gay friendly and open to any affiliation groups positive queer - and it remains one of the only places in Manhattan where people can be completely nude, topless and bottomless in public.

Sam, the co-founder of the group, is the only man present. Among the women present are a student, a production assistant, personal assistant and an adult film actress - but it is also frequented by the bartenders, baristas, dancers burlesque and other professions not likely to be used to learn the letter "B" on Sesame Street. The age of persons dealing with varied from 17 to 44.

"In Europe, it would be normal. I do not like it here, it is sexualized to be naked, "Rachel told me that she gestures around it." "It's not like this is sexy. We are just existing. "The other girls nod.

It is a truth not universally recognized by, say, Jane Austen, but a truth nonetheless, your top in public is much easier than I thought it was going to be taking. Do you know how awesome it makes taking off your bra in full sun? It is like getting a job of RIM among the cherubs painted on the Sistine Chapel.

Full disclosure: I've exposed my lady mammarian pieces to items once before, during a bacchanal warehouse party in the depths of Brooklyn, after drinking too much champagne in a hot tub. (They offered more than champaigne to all who would take their crazy out.) What can I say, I was young (two years ago) and drinks (right now). The memory of trolling the Internet with greasy hair hangover the next day, looking nervously photographic evidence, prevented any recurrence. So I felt that it was only fair to balance experience of bare breasts of Girls Gone Wild-esque patriarchal, with a SOBER, body positive, queer easy form topless women's lib.

As we roast us like rotisserie chickens - after slathering on SPF 50 to avoid burns on our most sensitive areas, oww - nibble raspberry marshmallows and cupcakes bakery of Billy, Sam explains the genesis of the club. A good friend of his--a woman country-hop for his career of photography - mentioned that his voyages indicated much more comfort with the human body that we have in America. Sam works in publishing, so they decided it would be a naked reading club, books provided by Sam, who met in public places. Often, they go to Central Park, but sometimes mark a roof at the hostel, as today.

They discovered a piece of legislature 1992 allowing women to go topless in public in New York (which the NYPD have was recently recalled after the arrest on several occasions a topless woman in the streets, according to the New York Times.) Sam said: "the law was on the books for 20 years, and nobody benefits."

Among their fans are the writer of fiction of the iconic genre Elmore Leonard, who sent free and even books requested a t-shirt with their logo - which they did not. "I made one upward and sent him. In fact, I have five compound and sent it to all, "Sam laughs.

"We thought that it would probably be one of those exceptional things," he said. But the interest in the club has experienced growth of the year. Friends and friends of friends, are usually welcome because they probably are like-minded, but as the spread of mouth, Sam has set up an informal screening process in order to prevent any potential pervy voyeurs. Not that women cannot hold their own.

"Sometimes, you'll have a guy sitting a few meters, but they end up bored. One of them pulled out a camera and [daughter that photographing] raised right in his face and took him pictures. »

Literally flipping the male gaze. I'm down with it.

* All names changed to protect the privacy of subjects.

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Why summer suck movies for women?

It happens every year. I learn the range of summer - full of sequelae Razzie-worthy action blockbuster, later by Michael Bay excuse to skip stuff and the occasional mediocre romantic comedy starring ditzes obsessed with marriage - and I ask myself: am I really expect pay $12 per ticket, when the only women on the screen are sexpots or shrews?

Unfortunately, women are also underrepresented in summer movies now as they were at the time of Rocky and Rambo. In 1985, the cartoonist Alison Bechdel proposed three rules for the determination of women-friendliness of a film. A movie worth watching if it (1) has two or more women (who have names), (2) women communicate with each other, and (3) they are talking about something other than a man.

So how is it that almost 30 years later, it is still rare for a summer movie to pass this test? The answer is sadly obvious: money. A peek at returns at the box office shows that this show is selling. The Avengers made over 600 million $ last year. It is more than enough to subsidize some small films, such as the smart indie rom - com Lola Versus. But the money stays in the family. We had seven films of Batman in the past 20 years, and we can not always get a franchise of Wonder Woman?

Audiences don't want just the standard fare of testosterone-fueled, as evidenced by the success of 2011 bridesmaids (it grossed nearly 290 million $), which was a blockbuster full, but with a few refreshing layers. Pad's success helped bridesmaids the way to more than comedies directed by women, such as Pitch perfect last fall, the heat of June, featuring Melissa McCarthy and Sandra Bullock and the list of actions this month, including Writer/Director, Maggie Carey, tried to sell his script to studios, but they are passed. According to Carey, "they said, ' we are looking for films that men aged 18 to 35 - want to see." "She got funds and filmed the movie itself. With its cast impressive (Aubrey Plaza, Rachel Bilson, Andy Samberg), it seems like a real competitor for the success at the box office.

Consider: About 5% of principals are women, but 24 per cent of the directors at the Sundance Festival indie-heavy. Why? In the independent film, women can make their own opportunities rather than waiting for the big studios to say Yes. Take Black Rock, an indie out now directed by and starring starring Katie Aselton, about three friends who end up fighting for their lives on hell camping trip. It's hard to sell to a studio, but imagine if the main characters were guys. 127 Hours meets 'Deliverance '? Not if fringe. Brit Marling co-wrote and stars in the East of this spring, a thriller about activists fight against pharmaceutical companies which poison the citizens. Uh, Michael Clayton anyone? The difference between these two and their counterparts focused on men: they pass the Bechdel Test.

Yes, you should be able to enjoy any film you want summer. But imagine what might look like things if we are all raised from films made by women. Our money is our vote, and stuffing the ballot with the support of quality women's film is a good starting point.

Meredith Clark is a producer of MSNBC.com web ultimate movie heroine is Céline's Julie Delpy in Before Sunrise trilogy (whose one-third was released today).

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